Bleeding Week!

Funny thing with sexually active women, who are not wanting children yet. When we first get our period, see that first bit of blood, feel those first cramps. We are stocked at the very least a little bit more at ease with life. Even if we have been really good, using condoms on top of taking our pill at the same dame time every day. Then about 1-5 minutes after it starts and after that first excitement of "yes not pregnant!" we are annoyed that it's bleeding week again and we have to go through that whole process, especially if we are the type to get really bad cramps.
Guys can't seem to understand this, for one they don't really think about the issue of becoming a dad until it's too late (or until they are actually planing on knocking their lady up so they can be parents). Once on the start of my bleeding week I told my boyfriend at the time very excitedly "Yay! I'm not pregnant! You're not going to be a dad!" 'cause I mean bleeding week is usually annoying and a pain in the butt and for me sometimes includes horrible, horrible craps so why not start it off with some excitement and happiness about it until the pain drives that away. Anyways he just looked at me like I was crazy and asked if I was actually worried about it. I told him no but no birth control is 100% affective so it's always a nice little thing to see confirmation that I'm not actually pregnant. I also told him I thought it was a nicer way of letting him know I was on the rag that week. After a bit when he finally kind of got it he chuckled and shook his head at me.

The only time I never worried about if I was pregos or not was when I was on my IUD these last 2 years, because my IDU was more effective than even getting fixed, plus with it I usually didn't have a period anyways. Sadly though I had bad side effects from the IUD and after finally realizing my body wasn't going to get use to it I finally had it removed this summer. So this is now my 2nd period since then and of course it started today, but it just reminded me about that quick joy and than disappointment that you have to go through the whole bleeding thing again.
Heh I think of some silly things sometimes, I know.